Diogenes wrote:
Fan,
If I lived in your home I could easily weigh 300 pounds and I am serious.
Your food presentation is very classsy if you ask me.
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I know you mean it as a compliment, as in you would eat too much (and thank you), but: 2 of us live here and we are both losing weight. My food is in fact quite low calorie. If you compare it to any normal fast food item (as a worst case argument, but what many people live on) I am well below calories, and with incomparable nutritional value over it. If you eat reasonable portions (which with good food is easy because you feel satisfied faster) you can eat as gourmet as you want without picking up too many calories.
Cooking for yourself is very empowering. I know every little bit of everything that goes into my mouth. I have picked over it, thrown out the parts that don't look amazing, seasoned it thoroughly, lovingly cradled it from initial chopping to mouth. I both created art and then destroyed art all as a functional part of the art itself.
I think of it very much as I do towards software and towards life. I want to control it as much as I can. The less that is in the hands of someone else the better. Who knows better than me what is good for me? And if you cook for people you love you put just as much care into their portion (in fact more, ever photo you see on these pages I did not eat.... I prepare my guest's plate and photograph that then put mine together rather more hastily so I can serve).
The heartbreaking necessity of lying about reality and the heartbreaking impossibility of lying about it.
― Kurt Vonnegut, Cat's Cradle